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Do Cats Really Grieve? A Study Uncovers the Emotional Side of Felines

Small kitten sitting on a girl's lap. Stroking and hugging mascot, pet.
Small kitten sitting on a girl's lap. Stroking and hugging mascot, pet. Image by Power lights. Chimneys launching smoke. Cranes, extending the electron. Image by Kozik_Radoslaw via Depositphotos.

Cats might act like they rule the world—cool, calm, slaving us around, and completely uninterested in our human drama—but it turns out they might have a soft spot after all. A new study reveals that our independent, furballs could actually be grieving when they lose a companion, whether it’s a fellow pet or even a favorite human. So, if your usually unbothered kitty seems a bit down after a loss, it’s not just in your head. Could it be that behind those sleepy eyes and “whatever” attitude, your cat is feeling a little heartbroken? Let’s dig into what cats might really be going through when they experience grief.

The Study That Got Us Wondering About Cat Grief

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A cat sleeping on a rock surface. Image by yaninashop via Depositphotos.

Researchers at Michigan’s Oakland University decided to find out if cats really do grieve after a loss. They surveyed over 400 cat owners to track behavioral changes after a pet passed away. While some cats seemed unbothered, others displayed behaviors that looked suspiciously like mourning. Could it be that behind their sometimes distant demeanor, cats are actually emotional beings?

Do Cats Form Emotional Bonds?

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One of the key takeaways from the study was that cats form bonds not just with humans but with other pets. If your cat had a close relationship with a fellow furry companion, their behavior may shift noticeably when that companion is gone. Cats are social animals, even if they like to pretend they don’t need anyone. Turns out, they might be softies deep down after all!

How Cats Show Grief in Their Own Way

Face of tabby cat among marble stones in cemetery.
Face of tabby cat among marble stones in cemetery. Image by AngelaMacario via Depositphotos.

While cats don’t exactly cry or write poetry after a loss, they do exhibit some interesting behaviors. Some cats may stop playing, lose their appetite, or spend more time hiding. Others may vocalize more than usual or search the house for their lost friend. Each cat grieves differently, much like humans do, making it a very individual experience.

Why Some Cats Eat More During Grief

Domesticated cat.
Domesticated cat. Image by ditadumitru via Depositphotos.

Interestingly, while some cats stop eating, others do the opposite. No, they’re not stress eating a tub of ice cream, but they might start munching more kibble. One possible reason is that the absence of their companion means more access to the food bowl. Another theory is that eating more could be a comforting activity in the face of change.

How Cats Mourn Differently Than Humans

Small kitten sitting on a girl's lap. Stroking and hugging mascot, pet.
Small kitten sitting on a girl’s lap. Stroking and hugging mascot, pet. Image by Power lights. Chimneys launching smoke. Cranes, extending the electron. Image by Kozik_Radoslaw via Depositphotos.

Unlike humans, cats probably aren’t thinking about the finality of death or contemplating the meaning of life. They might not fully understand what’s happened, but they do notice that someone in their social circle is missing. Their reactions are more likely a response to this change, rather than the kind of deep emotional grieving we experience.

Do Cats Grieve the Loss of Humans?

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A closeup shot of a person’s hand petting a cute cat. Image by Wirestock via Depositphotos.

It’s tempting to believe your cat would miss you if you were gone, but the study’s researchers are careful not to jump to conclusions. While some cats may show signs of distress when an owner passes away, others seem to adjust surprisingly well. It’s hard to say for sure without more research, but if your cat snuggles up a little closer after you’ve lost a family member, they might be feeling the absence too.

How Long Do Cats Grieve?

A cat lying on the grace.
A cat lying on the grace. Image by yaninashop via Depositphotos.

Like people, cats have their own timelines when it comes to processing loss. Some might move on after a few days, while others could show signs of grief for months. A previous study in Australia found that cats and dogs typically exhibit behavioral changes for less than six months after the death of a companion.

Should You Get a New Pet to Help Your Cat Cope?

wild cat on the street-close-up
wild cat on the street-close-up. Image by PalyOleg.gmail.com via Depositphotos.

Introducing a new pet might seem like a good idea, but it depends on the individual cat. A younger cat may appreciate a new playmate, but an older cat might not be so thrilled about sharing their space again. Consider your cat’s personality before making any decisions. Some cats just need time, not a new roommate.

Signs That Your Cat Is Struggling With Loss

A cat sleeping outdoor.
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Pay attention to changes in your cat’s behavior. If they’re eating less, hiding more, or seem anxious, it could be a sign they’re having a hard time adjusting to the loss. Increased vocalization or sniffing areas where the lost pet used to hang out are also common signs of feline grief. If these behaviors continue for a long period, it might be time to consult a vet.

Why Cat Grief Needs More Research

A cat lying on the ground.
A cat lying on the ground. Image by adam_wbo@hotmail.com via Depositphotos.

While this study opens up a fascinating window into the emotional lives of cats, there’s still a lot we don’t know. As much as we’d love to believe our cats are silently mourning with us, it’s difficult to measure feline emotions. More research is needed to fully understand how cats process loss and what we can do to support them during these times.

The Surprising Depths of Feline Emotion

A human petting a cat
A human petting a cat. Image by ta.che via Depositphotos.

It turns out cats are more than just independent furballs with a “me-first” attitude. The bond they form with their companions—whether human or animal—is real, and their behavior after a loss suggests that they feel more than we might have thought. The next time your cat curls up next to you after a tough day, know that they might be offering more than just warmth—they could be sharing in your grief, too.