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13 Surprising Ways Dogs Show Jealousy

A Rhodesian Ridgeback rescue dog with a collar sitting outdoors, gazing intently.
A Rhodesian Ridgeback rescue dog with a collar sitting outdoors, gazing intently. Photo by Laurie Gouley

Dogs have long been cherished companions for humans, often celebrated for their loyalty and emotional sensitivity. But could our beloved pets harbor feelings akin to human jealousy? Recent research and observational studies suggest that dogs do indeed exhibit behaviors that reflect jealousy. Whether it’s the arrival of a new family member or sharing attention with another pet, these heartfelt pooches have their unique ways of expressing envy. In this article, we will explore 14 surprising ways dogs show jealousy, shedding light on canine emotions and deepening our understanding of our four-legged friends.

Barking for Attention

Dog barking
Dog barking. Photo by Robert Gramner, via Unsplash

One of the most common signs of jealousy in dogs is excessive barking. When a dog feels that they are losing out on their owner’s attention, they may start barking more than usual. This behavior is their way of calling you back, hoping to reclaim your undivided love and focus.

Interrupting Affection

Puppy eyes.
Two cute Jack Russell Terrier puppies. One puppy is lying on the sofa, stretching its legs forward, looking at camera. Image via Depositphotos.

If you’ve ever noticed your dog nudging their way between you and another person or pet, they might be showcasing jealousy. Interrupting affection by pawing at you or wedging themselves into snuggle time signals that your canine companion wants to ensure they’re still a priority.

Sulking or Withdrawing

Sad dog.
Sad dog. Image via Depositphotos.

Just like humans, dogs can sulk when they feel jealous. A normally playful pooch might retreat to a corner or turn their back on you to express their disappointment. This withdrawal is their way of showing you that they feel left out and are yearning for your attention.

Avoiding Eye Contact

sad dog
Sad dog. Image by Ryan Stone via Unsplash.

Another clear sign of jealousy is when a dog avoids making eye contact. Dogs are typically eager to communicate through their eyes, so when they avert their gaze, it could indicate that they’re upset about sharing your attention with someone else.

Destructive Behavior

A cute brown dog playfully tugs on a rope outdoors with its owner on a sunny day.
A cute brown dog playfully tugs on a rope outdoors with its owner on a sunny day. Photo by Darcy Lawrey

At times, jealousy in dogs can manifest in destructive behaviors such as chewing furniture or tearing up household items. Such behaviors are often cries for attention, signaling their distress over perceived neglect.

Clinginess

A woman lovingly holds her happy Sheltie dog in a sunny outdoor setting, enjoying a moment of joy.
A woman lovingly holds her happy Sheltie dog in a sunny outdoor setting, enjoying a moment of joy. Photo by Blue Bird via Pexels.

On the flip side of withdrawal, some dogs become more clingy when they’re feeling jealous. They may follow you from room to room or seek constant physical contact, as if to confirm that their bond with you remains unbroken.

Urinating Indoors

Jack Russell Parson Terrier Running Toward The Camera Low Angle High Speed Shot

The stress of sharing affection can sometimes trigger inappropriate bathroom habits in dogs. Urinating indoors, particularly in areas that smell like the competing pet or person, is a clear sign of marking their territory due to jealousy.

Pushing or Nudging Objects

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KONG Classic Stuffable Dog Toy for $12 on Amazon. Image by @KONGCompany via Facebook.

Jealous dogs may push or nudge objects with their nose as a way to distract you from the other pet or person. This behavior is akin to them saying, “Look at me instead!” and is a playful yet insistent gesture for regaining attention.

Guarding Behavior

K-9 Guard dog.
K-9 guard dog. Image by hfx777 via Depositphotos.

Sometimes jealousy may prompt a dog to exhibit guarding behavior, such as standing protectively in front of you or growling softly. This behavior is their instinctual way of warding off competition and securing their place in your heart.

Ignoring Commands

Woman Training Her Dog In The Forest.
Woman Training Her Dog In The Forest. Image Via Depositphotos.

Jealousy can make an otherwise obedient dog act out by ignoring commands. This defiance might be a form of protest against what they perceive as unfair division of your attention.

Attention-Seeking Tricks

Smiling young man in blue volunteer shirt sitting with a happy dog on a pink background.
Smiling young man in blue volunteer shirt sitting with a happy dog on a pink background. Image by Mikhail Nilov via Pixabay.

Dogs are remarkably intelligent and may resort to their usual charming repertoire of tricks in an effort to lure your attention back. Whether it’s fetching a toy or executing a flawless sit, these tricks are employed to refocus your attention on them.

Food-Guarding

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Dog eating veggies. Image by anastas via Depositphotos.

In multi-pet households, a jealous dog might start guarding their food more aggressively. This behavior is an attempt to assert dominance and ensure that they’re not going unnoticed amid other pets.

Ears Pinned Back

Terrified shelter dog can't stop shaking.
Terrified shelter dog can’t stop shaking. Image by @CleartheClermontCountyAnimalShelter via Facebook.

The position of a dog’s ears can convey a lot about their emotional state. If your dog’s ears are pinned back while in the presence of a competing attention magnet, they may be displaying signs of jealousy.

Summary: Understanding and Addressing Canine Jealousy

Captivating portrait of a cute Papillon puppy with fluffy fur, captured in a studio setting.
“Choosing Dogs Responsibly” image by Alan Quirván via Pexels

Recognizing the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways dogs show jealousy helps us appreciate the depth of their emotions. Dogs, like people, need reassurance and love to feel secure. By understanding their behaviors, we can better address their needs. Making sure each pet receives individual attention, maintaining consistent routines, and providing mental stimulation are effective ways to mitigate jealousy. Ultimately, fostering an environment where every pet feels secure and valued is essential to maintaining a harmonious home.

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